11.30.07
It’s those little things that just…arrgghh. (I apologize in advance for the bitchiness in this post.)
Okay, apparently this week is bag on the boyfriend week. But, y’all know what I’m talking about, right? Those little things that just get. under. your. skin. about your otherwise fantastic, fabulous boyfriend. And it is not necessarily things he does, more like…touchy subjects. Like, for me, those celebs will always annoy me. Other things: His “work” relationship with Cynthia (remember her?), his myspace that he never checks and has since updated, but STILL, and Romy, his friend’s wife, whom he admires to no end. Because she’s a brain surgeon! But she’s also a ballet dancer! (Whatever.)
It’s not such a big deal, just more like a little pang whenever the topic comes up. And I’m sure that he has some touchy topics that concern me as well. I’ve got to believe that there are touchy topics like these in every relationship. Right?
Amy said,
December 2, 2007 at 3:35 pm
there are definetely touchy subjects in every relationship.
blogging barbie said,
December 3, 2007 at 7:45 am
absolutely hands down yes.
hi, have your read my blog?
dude, relationships are HARD. that damn whole day-to-day thing. baaah.
it’s totally normal. but so worth it. hang in there. xo
AmyD said,
December 3, 2007 at 7:46 am
For SURE, there are these “touchy topics” in every relationship! If there weren’t, I’m guessing that would mean the couple didn’t care enough to CARE…if that makes sense?! Ha!
These things you mentioned would drive me nuts, too. I find it sort of cute that you are irked, actually. I have to wonder if, since the word “love” was uttered, if you now feel even more invested in this, which is causing you to feel that much more touchy and irritated by the little things that “upset the perfect” of your relationship. If that’s the case, it’s a good sign that only says you really care a TON about this man… Yay!
Dawn said,
December 3, 2007 at 10:15 am
Even after you’re married… [sigh]
But, as AmyD (hi Amy!!!!!!) said, caring about those little pesky niggly things means that you care about him and your relationship.
You’re doing good, even if you sometimes don’t feel good about it.
cdp said,
December 4, 2007 at 3:31 pm
Umm, yes. Every relationship has these. And I definitely do not hesitate to start throwing around The Look of Death when they come up.
Hang in there. Personally I’m pissed off at everyone in a five mile radius, and no one has even done anything to me!
Sarah said,
December 5, 2007 at 7:52 am
Thank you for writing this. I’ve been wanting to do the same for awhile now too!
La said,
December 10, 2007 at 6:14 am
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