11.29.07
What goes up, must come down.
Thank you for all the lovely comments on the last post. I even got a lovely comment from Dinkerwald (at least, I am going to assume it was lovely and not sarcastic)! I love love too, and walking on air, etc. is fabulous and all that, but I know it is not realistic and can’t last forever.
Which is probably why my irrational mind decided to take a FEW COMMENTS made SEPARATELY and IN PASSING and blow them out of proportion so I could find those kinks in the armor that I was looking for. Note, the actual comments made are as follows: (1) “I think that girl in Love Acutally and Pirates is pretty perfect;” (2) “I think Jessica Alba is gorgeous;” and (3) “Beyonce is hot.”
Ok, I KNOW I am crazy. I KNOW I am just being overly sensitive (SHOCKER!). Everyone thinks celebs are hot and it doesn’t mean that he’d pick them over me or whatever, like it would even be a possibility. At least this time I managed to keep my sensitivity and emotions in check and just get miffed and move on, instead of bitchy and catty. I think that is making progress, right?
Jill said,
November 29, 2007 at 7:18 pm
That’s definitely progress! It’s normal to be irked by these things but think of it this way: If he wasn’t in love with you he’d probably be hesitant to share these thoughts with you. Those comments are just about surface stuff and his feelings for you are REAL. I’d take a deep breath and remind yourself that he’s chosen you, not because you’re accessible (there are a million women who are accessible) but because he wants you.
Amy said,
November 29, 2007 at 11:59 pm
LOL the ex SG once said he thought Tea Leoni (as she is in Spanglish) was the perfect woman. I BLEW UP at him. I was all “if you think that skinny no curve having non menstrating man body is perfect than what the fuck are you doing with me”
Of course, the ex SG being the ex SG it was likely more the WAY he said it than WHAT he said that set me off.
LOL
Don’t worry, you’re being human.
Margarita said,
November 30, 2007 at 8:38 am
Fo shizzle. Definitely progress, I used to comment on Heath Ledger’s abs or Matt Damon’s butt or David Duchovny’s hotness, and my significant other at the time would get slightly peeved, so it kind of goes both ways.
michelle said,
November 30, 2007 at 10:51 am
most def. and like i posted today everyone’s allowed their celeb “top 5″. even the boys
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Dinkerwald said,
December 5, 2007 at 2:48 pm
Hey, C’mon gimmie a break here. I was/am honest and sincere in my comment about your new love. I think it’s wonderful.
No joke or sarcasm intended.
Merry Christmas.