11.22.07
Can of Worms? Definitely Open.
Examples of text messages I have received in the past couple weeks:
“I love you and will never hurt you again. Can you just trust me Nicole? Please.”
“Please! I want to get my girl back. I’ll do anything and change anything for you, babe. How much more can I beg?”
Hmm. I feel bad, but it is just too late. What should I do?
Dora said,
November 22, 2007 at 8:04 pm
You know the answer is no!
I believe that people do not change that easily and that he’ll try for a few months and then it will all go back to what it was. He’ll just go back to his comfort zone, which was how he was before.
Bexxie said,
November 22, 2007 at 8:36 pm
WoW!!
I’m with Dora (even though I don’t know the history) he had his chance!! … Or did he?
Amy said,
November 22, 2007 at 9:14 pm
do not respond.
A Lil' Irish Lass said,
November 23, 2007 at 7:39 am
I agree with Amy. Definitely do not respond. He wants you now because he can’t have you. If you were to leave Jameson to be with him (the biggest mistake EVER), he would automatically have the upper hand in the relationship and would start treating you like shit all over again.
Also, even if he DID treat you like gold…you have someone who does that now, who has done it since the start. Don’t screw that up.
AlieMalie said,
November 23, 2007 at 3:43 pm
ignore ignore ignore!
michelle said,
November 25, 2007 at 7:11 pm
i second what everyone has said above. do not respond!
AmyD said,
November 26, 2007 at 8:47 am
Aside from responding with a quite truthful (and mean), “Too little, too late,” I suggest you simply IGNORE and DELETE. Men like him are hard to shoo off if you do anything but that.
Margarita said,
November 26, 2007 at 4:40 pm
I’ve been in this situation. Ignore him completely and he will get the hint eventually. That’s my suggestion.
Jill said,
November 29, 2007 at 7:14 pm
I concur with the rest of the commenters. Silence is the most powerful response of all.